Tips to Better Living #9

Women aren't critical of their man's driving - they're just sharing their knowledge of *proper* driving skills.

Leighann, formerly of "Pessimists Need Love Too"

The Conversation, Part 3 (Finale)

Her: Ok ... I’m bringing you to bed ... my lap top that is haha
Her: ok ... it's going to take me a minute or two ... so hold on.
Me: Aww, you are carrying me to bed
Me: Messy bed...I like that because I am messy too LOL
Her: lol yes, I was carrying you to bed lol
Me: Want me to talk while you do this?
Her: lol only if you don’t want me to answer lmfao
Her: and I dunno if I’m going to do it yet
Her: haha
Me: I like it when someone talks to me while I do it
Her: lol you liked my messy bed eh?
Me: Thanks for inviting me to the bed tho
Her: lol you're welcome
(I see her “doing something” off cam in the area of her crotch) Me: That look on your face...
Her: what look?
Me: LOL
Me: Pick up your right hand LOL (she complies after “switching” hands off-cam)
Me: Both hands (she takes a moment, shifting her weight before doing so)
Me: LOL
Me: You're doing something, aren't ya? (I have a suspicion that she is playing with her pussy, off-cam)
Me: Yes?
Her: whatcha thinking?? lol
Me: You sure looked like you were enjoying it
Her: enjoying what
Me: And you said you don't do run arounds LOL (she blushes again)
Me: You look so good
Me: Yummy
Me: Hot
Her: So what is it you think I’m enjoying (she shifts again and I see what looks like a remote with wire going to her crotch)
Me: And...you look so HOT doing it
Me: But you are using a white remote so I will just sit here and enjoy watching you get into your groove
Me: No hurry
Her: lol how do you know it's white? maybe it's blue ... maybe there's NOTHING there lol
Me: I saw white control panel with white wire leading into your magnificent pussy
Me: Yes
(She glares at me as if I had broken a rule) Me: You are sassy and you like it and I like it
(She blushes again) Her: lol just a tad haha
Me: LOL
Me: That's good to hear
Her: yeah you need to talk more ... about anything at all ... hell ... talk about the damn weather there lol
Me: LOL
(She leans back on the bed, exposing more of her but I cannot see her pussy yet) Me: Ohhh
Me: The temp in here is rising FAST
Me: And I love it
Me: My mouth is watering already
Me: I am DROOLING
Me: I like to wipe precome off on my balls and my cock so my wife can SMELL me better when she puts her face near my cock
Me: She loves to smell it and touch it and taste it and feel it every day
Me: She loves how it feels in her hand, mouth, and in her
Me: Drives her crazy when I vary my speed
Me: She knows I know this and I do this to make her orgasms MORE intense
Me: I bring her to the brink of ecstasy and then I stop so she can calm down
Me: I bring her to the brink again
Me: And again I stop
Me: This heightens the sensitivity of her clitoris
Me: She swells more and begs more of my madness
Me: She cannot stand it and yet she craves it
Me: It, being the madness of giving her an orgasm
Me: The orgasm level just builds and builds...higher and higher
Me: Sometimes I don't stop and I let her crash through her orgasm
Me: Sometimes I do stop and she curses at me
Me: She curses the day she met me
Me: She curses the magnificence of my cock
Me: She curses everything and anything
Me: Until I ease her back into the groove of an orgasm
Me: So I would take my time with an orgasm of hers
Me: Sometimes I will just let her experience one on her own
Me: Hers to own, cherish, possess
(She uses her leg to pull the cam down and I can clearly see her masturbating now) Me: Sometimes I will throw in an extra oomph
Me: Afterburners to accelerate her orgasm right through the roof
Me: She sometimes explodes in a blinding flash of lights
Me: Sometimes she loses sense of time
Me: Sense of belonging
Me: The universe ceases
Me: Time does not exist
Me: Space does not exist
(She is now bucking and gyrating with the vibrator) Me: One after another, she crashes through
Me: Sometimes at breakneck pace
Me: Sometimes what seems an eternity of time in between
Me: I will bend down and lick her most sensitive spot G-E-N-T-L-Y
Me: Sometimes I will flick across her G-spot while she is in her throes
(She goes into rigidity in the throes of her orgasm) Me: I love to see a woman clench up
Me: Can you see now? LOL
Me: Did you enjoy all of this? (she wordlessly nods and sighs deeply)
Me: How was it for you? (she sighs deeply again)
Her: lol how do you think
Me: I will let you rest and get your thoughts organized again
Me: Thank you for giving me the pleasure to watch you orgasm
(She leans back) Me: Going for another?
(She starts masturbating again) Me: Ohh
Me: This is a beautiful gift you are giving me
Me: Yes, I will talk some more
(She is gently rocking with the vibrator) Me: I love the look that comes across a woman's face
Me: When she is caught in the grip of an impending and unstoppable force
Me: Nothing more beautiful and exciting and enthralling than seeing one all caught
Me: Unable to break free and unwilling to break free (she takes the vibrator out and uses a dildo instead)
Me: The sweetness of the pain that releases the woman from her physical constraints of her soul
Me: The life affirming experience of having an orgasm
Me: Having an orgasm as an answer to everything is the best thing a woman can give herself
Me: The agony and the beauty of one
Me: The secret is to let go
Me: Obliterate all sense of time, space, knowledge
(She is bucking harder and masturbating harder than before) Me: Embrace everything known, everything unknown, and all in between
Me: Everything you've ever loved, everything you've ever feared, everything you've hated
(She clenches up again in orgasm) Me: Alllll at once!
Me: Ohhh
(She gets up and seems unsteady) Me: Wobbly legs! LOL (she indicates “Just a minute” with one finger and leaves)
Me: You can walk and that is good
(She returns) Me: You want another?
Her: lol the dogs were barking downstairs
Me: How did you feel after the 2nd one?
Her: lovely
Me: And I was not even there in person
Her: lol want to see what I used the second time?
Me: Yes
Her: its called The Thumb Pleaser
(She shows me that dildo) Me: About as big and long as me
Her: lol well then ... may I say ... HOT DAMN
Me: LOL
Me: You thinking about 3rd one, maybe?
Her: no lol
Me: Think of it as a challenge
Me: You never know
Her: lol maybe
(I look at my pager to see what made it vibe) Her: Is that your lovely wife texting you?
Me: No, someone sent an email
Her: Oooo
Me: I ignored it
Her: lol why?
Me: Who cares about that when I just watched a woman have an orgasm…TWICE?
Her: lol
Me: Damn! Look at that!
(I show her my wet spot) Her: you're all goopy
Her: lol
Me: I drooooooled so much!
Me: And I kept typing!
Me: All for you!
Her: haha
Me: Was my pleasure
Me: I do so love watching a woman give herself pleasure
Her: Well Im glad I could make you happy lol
Me: No...
Me: I am GLAD to make YOU happy
Her: xoxo
Her: its time to say good night handsome. Im sleepy after that haha and have to get up early tomorrow
Me: LOL
Me: I will live
Me: This time
Me: LOL
Me: I may explode next time!
Me: Hehe
Her: you'll have to show me
Me: When?
Her: dunno
Me: LOL
Me: You just tell me
Her: I will
Me: Okay
Me: I will save it all up for you
Her: No you wont
Her: You're gonna go play with your wife now
Me: She went to sleep
Her: wake her up
Me: She didn't feel good
Me: Remember?
Her: poor thing
Me: Poor me too
Her: you could have played with yourself
Me: You wanted me to TALK to you and I was more than happy to oblige
Her: yeah lol sorry about that ... I just knew I couldnt do that with you just sitting there lol
Me: No problem LOL
Me: You should save all this and paste it on your blog
Her: lol no way hosey
Me: Delete the names
Me: LOL
Her: duh lol
Me: Still "no way"?
Me: What if I offered my blog?
Her: lol why dont YOU post it then silly
Me: I can and you know I will
Me: Should I *name* you? Hmm...I am thinking about it
(She shakes her head “No” vigorously) Me: LOL!
Me: Hehehe!
Her: no way mister
Me: Hehehe!
Her: you're silly
Me: Still drooling
Me: Your fault and you love it
Me: I am not jacking off (adjusts the cam to show both my hands on the keyboard)
Her: yeah yeah
Her: lol
Me: Just tell me when
Her: haha
Me: I know...not "tonight"
Me: LOL
Her: Good night handsome
Me: Good night, beautiful woman
Me: I did and so loved what you allowed me to see
Her: feel special I've actually never done that before ... haha
Me: Enjoyed the trick you did with your foot to let ME see
Me: Wow
Me: Thanks for the honor
Her: lol yeah ... I had to move the screen somehow lol
Me: Yes!
Me: LOL
Me: Didn't want you to break your rhythm
Me: LOL
(My wife walks by behind me) Me: That's who you saw…my wife
Her: I figured that's who I saw. Is she ok???
Her: AND WAS SHE NAKED????
Her: she went by too quickly lol
Her: but it made me smile
Me: No...she had her panties on
Her: duh me
Her: seriosuly .. Im a dummy sometimes lol
Me: Nah. Never sell yourself short
Me: She's ticked off about not being able to breathe
Her: Oooo Im sorry
Her: Go be with her. Make her happy and make her smile. Tell her Im thinkin of her and hope she feels better soon and can breath better soon.
(I tell my wife that) Me: She said "thanks"
Me: Anything else?
Her: nope
Me: Sleep well
Her: you too

The Conversation, Part 2

(I continue to fondle the paddle) Her: you need to tease more
Her: maybe do a strip tease
(I stand up and I take my shorts off) Her: lol
Her: keep stripping
(I take my shirt off) Her: lol
(I take few steps back to show her more of me) Her: take the socks off!!
Her: PLEASE
(I comply) Her: lol
Me: LOL
(My wife comes back and sees what is going on…she pulls my boxer briefs down and fondles me in front of the cam) Her: omg cut it out
Me: She is spanking me
Her: lol
Her: and you two have made me go as red as a damn tomato
Me: LOL
Me: Told you...I tell her EVERYTHING
(My wife starts sucking my cock in full view) Her: lol I don’t need to see this ... lmfao
(She hides her eyes but peeks through her fingers) Her: though I guess if I didn’t I could just shut it off right
Me: LOL
Her: and I haven’t done that yet
(My wife stops sucking my cock and shows her how hard I am now) Her: lmao
Me: Nope
Me: LOL
Her: you are so enjoying this aren’t you?
Me: You asking my wife or me?
Her: lmfao I meant YOU but you can both answer lol
Me: Yes we both are
Her: nice nice
Her: but theres a problem ... you two are making ME horny and I have no one to help me out with that
Her: lol
(My wife sits in the chair to talk to her) Her: Hey beautiful!
Wife: Hi hot mama!!
Her: well thank you
Wife: Oh, I'm so sorry you're alone
Wife: Dontcha have toys?
Her: yeah ... I have toys lol
Wife: but its better with someone ...
Wife: True dat...better something than nothing
(I have my pager with Yahoo Messenger on it and I’m messing with her while My wife talks to her on the computer) Her: lol your hubby is asking me to ask you if I can have him
Wife: What do you wanna do with him?
Her: lol I have no idea lmfao
Wife: Do I get to watch????
Her: Yes you can watch
Her: you can join in too if you'd like
Wife: He's fun and plays well with others
Her: lol so I’ve heard
Wife: And...
Wife: He worries about himself after the women are well cared for
Her: lol
Wife: Not a minute man
Her: Well that’s the way it should be.
Wife: Hell yeah!!
Her: Us women should be taken care of first
Wife: And 2nd, 3rd, 4th, 5th, 6th, 7th, 8th, etc
Wife: Lil red, are ya?
(I’m still messing with her, saying things like “Imagine a part of me in you and another part of me in her”) Her: oh your husband is not nice lol
Wife: I know...try living with him!
Her: lol I don’t think I could handle it haha. You're very brave. Either that or he's wrapped around your finger
Wife: Lil of both
Her: lol sounds good to me
Wife: He worships the ground I walk on
Her: awww that's the way it should be.
Her: That’s sweet
Wife: He's got no choice, if he knows what's good for him hee hee
Her: lol yeah ... thats awesome
(I start fondling my wife’s breasts through her shirt) Her: Playful isn't he?
Wife: He's been in quite the mood all day
Wife: VERY charged up
Her: poor thing lol
Wife: And ofc I'm outta commission for his bday...that sucks ass
Wife: Can still give him a present tho
Her: lol do it do it do it
Her: lol
Her: not right now!!!!!
Wife: You're killing me
Her: Did he show you my gift to him?
Wife: Giggles: Hee Hee
(My wife is now stroking my cock in full view again) Wife: I'm playing now hehe'
(I told my wife about her present and showed her) Wife: Looking at your present
Wife: *wolf whistles*
Wife: OOOH, boobies!!!!!
Her: lol yes boobies. I love my boobies haha
Wife: I love your boobies too
Her: aww thank you
Wife: Boobies are wonderful, so soft and supple and pretty
Her: I agree completely
(I left and came back) Her: Awww did he put boxers on???
Wife: Wow
Wife: Yeah, his pee pee was cold I guess
Wife: We could prolly help him warm up tho lol
Her: yeah lol I could see us doing that
Her: but you'd do a better job of it ... you know, with you being there
Wife: Yeah, I do have the slight advantage
Her: lol yes yes you do
Wife: Wonder if I'll be awake by the time he's ready for my advantage tho hahaha
Her: lol why? are you sleepy??
Wife: Long work day, PMS, asthma kicking my ass
Her: Awwww I’d give ya a big hug if I were there eh
Wife: AWWW, thanks!!
Wife: Getting drink brb but leaving you in the capable hands of the bday boy
(My wife leaves and I sit in the chair) Her: lol hey handsome!!
Me: LOL
Her: naughty
Me: And you like it
Me: You are sexy
Her: oh god no I’m not
Her: lol
Me: I love it when you smile
Me: You know you are blushing
Me: LOL
(I can feel my wet spot forming and I decide to show her how much I am “drooling” so I pull the cam off the monitor and after all the blurry images have passed, the cam is UP CLOSE with the tip of my cock) Her: lol what the fuck are you showing me
Me: That’s precome you’re seeing on my cock
Her: yeah um im wet too lol
Me: Told you...you are sexy and hot
Me: Can you show me on your finger how wet? That should make you BLUSH
(She shakes her head “No” and blushes) Me: Pretty please?
(She leans back and then shows her wet finger) Me: Awwww!
Me: That's awesome!
Her: brb lol
(She tries to discreetly get up and leave without letting me see anything) Me: Ohh!
Me: Nice!
Her: You caught that eh?
Me: I caught it!
Me: What did you bring back?
Her: a towel lmao
Me: For you to sit on, eh?
Her: LOL
Her: I’m debating about going to get a toy
Her: haha
(She gets up again and I am still able to see her body as she leaves) Me: Ohhhhhh!
Me: Oh la la!
(She returns) Her: lol I am not going to play with my toys in front of you
Me: Not asking
(She arches her eyebrows at that) Me: Not telling
Me: LOL
Me: UP to you
Me: You have the option to use one or some or many...on cam, off cam, or just out of sight
Me: You know you have that choice
Her: what do you want?
Me: If this is what YOU want to so, then this is what I want to be there for you
Her: lol nice run around
Me: LOL
Her: I am ASKING YOU
Her: WHAT DO YOU WANT
Me: I would love to watch if you would like for me to watch
Her: again, a run around lol
Her: you're bad
Me: You gave me runarounds too LOL
Me: Two can play this game!
(She shakes her head to say “no”)
Me: Yes
Me: Hehe
Me: I do love seeing you go "No!" LOL
Her: lol why
Me: Because you know you will LOL
(She blushes again) Me: See how much I enjoy talking with you?
Me: Ok...
Me: I will be honest...I would LOVE to watch but I do not want you to feel like you have to. Nothing gives me greater pleasure than being there to watch and see a woman give herself pleasure and doing it for me to see
Her: if you didn’t like watching, I’d think there was something wrong with you
Me: Thanks LOL
Her: Ok ... I’m bringing you to bed ... my lap top that is haha
Her: ok ... it's going to take me a minute or two ... so hold on.
Me: Aww, you are carrying me to bed

The Conversation, Part 1

Me: Hi there
Her: Hey !!!!!
Her: hey handsome I missed you
Me: Thanks
(She adjusts the cam and I can see below her neck now) Me: Are you wearing a robe?
Her: yes
Me: LOL
Me: What captivates your attention over there? TV, right?
Me: LOL
Her: lol sorry
Her: I’m going to stop watching TV just for you
Me: Okay
Her: ok
(She pauses to look at her monitor) Her: I like watching you.
(I laugh out loud at that) Her: lol did I just make YOU blush a bit?
Me: That, snuck up on me…so no but I laughed hard...you got me there
(I can see her fiddling with the lapel of her robe) Me: Quit playing with your robe...you ain't THAT bored watching me LOL
Her: lol Im not bored in the slightest. I just like the feel of it. It's silk
Me: I wondered about that because it seemed so shiny
Me: Have you cooled down now?
Her: nope
Her: vampires (she was catching up on “True Blood”) ... remember ... make me hot lol
(I see her jiggle around a bit…as if she is trying to be discreet about...maybe removing her panties...) Me: Did you just get busted by me for taking off your underwear????
Her: maybe
Her: lol
(She shows me her panties) Me: Yes, you did! I like that
Me: LOL
Her: lol thought you would
Me: What made you do that?
Her: not telling (she is grinning big time)
Me: Because I said "All silk?"
Her: lol no
Me: So wait where you are...no panties and all...
Me: Sexy
(I can see her face redden) Me: Blushing?
Her: always with you
Me: Good
Her: lol
Me: Not telling me why you took it off, huh?
Her: because I wanted to
Me: Haha
Her: what are you doing right now?
Me: Me? Looking at you and talking to you (my wife comes in and talks to me about what to do with the kids tomorrow)
Me: Sorry…my wife was asking me about our kids
Her: no problem
Me: You saw her come in
Her: yep, hence me pulling my robe closed
Me: She doesn’t care if you don’t want her to see. ;)
(My wife left) Me: Now you can cool off LOL
(She opens her robe up and sits up straighter but I can’t see her breasts fully) Me: Almost!
(She pulls the cam down to show me better) Me: LOL
(She pulls the robe closed and looks at me coyly) Me: LOL
(She stands up and backs away from the cam) Me: Yes
(She opens the robe more) Me: Yes
(She takes her robe off) Me: Loving it
Me: I am hard already
(She sits down but I can see her breasts) Her: Mmmm you would
Me: That's what boxer briefs will do to me...bunch me up and stick me OUT THERE
Her: lol you'd think you'd stick out more without anything on.
Me: LOL (I stand up and turn sideways so she can see the bulge)
Me: Blushing again?
Her: lol that was good lol
Her: are you going to wake up aching again tomorrow?
Me: IF you had anything to say about that!
Her: lol I liked knowing that you did haha
Me: I figured as much!
Her: I liked knowing that I may have played a tiny tiny part in that
Me: Tiny? Tiny tiny? Hell no! HUGE part!
Her: lol really?
Me: Yep! (I pause to drink water)
Her: SWALLOW
Her: lol
Me: LOL
Her: ok I hate this ... I really did miss you while you were gone
Me: Aww that's sweet of you
Me: After all we did up to last night, still don't expect anything to happen if we meet in person?
Her: No, I still don’t expect anything at all besides you being yourself. I don’t expect things like that
Me: Good
Her: I do expect people to be kind and funny and smart and wonderful in their own ways. I do expect people to be honest, even if it hurts the other person, but as long as they use some tact lol
Me: LOL
Her: what are you thinking? you're smiling a lot which is nice to see
Me: Enjoying your expressions on your face
Me: You like to think
Her: I’m always thinking
Her: I’m also chewing the inside of my lip lol
Me: I meant to ask you about that
Me: You know it is destructive? I don't care...just wondering if you know
Her: lol yea but it feels good and it helps me to keep calm and relaxed
Me: I won't lecture or anything - just FYI and that's it
Her: lol well, if your lecture consists of a few spanks, I'd like to hear it
Me: You will love this (I get up & leave to show her what has inspired me)
Her: lol ok
(I show her my fraternity paddle) Her: Ooooo
Her: Frat boy, huh?
Her: I can’t read it, sorry
Me: Says "xxxx" (my last name) down the front of the paddle
Her: well I saw THAT lol
Me: Under my name, "xxx" (fraternity name) and "Fall 1996"
Her: thats really hot
Me: Solid oak, handmade, varnished
Me: Won't CRACK
(I smack the paddle against my hand) Her: wow nice
Her: that would be hot
(I fondle the paddle) Her: lol
Me: Did I tease you enough?
Me: LOL
(I continue to fondle the paddle) Her: you need to tease more
Her: maybe do a strip tease

HNT - Sneaky Bitch Strikes Again!

I had a trying day, having suffered from the latest poison ivy infection in my right eye - causing headaches. Don't you know it...I fell asleep right away, waiting for my wife to finish reading her book...and she snuck in few pictures. Sneaky bitch! LOL


You can see some of the lovely poison ivy outbreak on my chest. (Yes, that's a "flower" toy in the background...left there by my daughter.)

~clicky click~
How did I get the poison ivy rash? I cleared the backyard of every fucking thing that didn't belong there. Took me 2 hours and wrecked my back, but no more poison ivy!

Oh...stay tuned to this blog over the weekend...I will publish something (maybe in parts, depending on the length) that may or may not get some of you wet. Hmm!

Barefoot Dreamer, this one is for you!

Barefoot Dreamer, I e-invited a bunch of people to your birthday party...and look who showed up. Before I start introducing people, I'd like to tell you something...I asked them to send me a picture that means something to them because it is about you.

First, me...since I am the one who is hosting this. Hehe! I got you this e-shirt (front and back).

Then there's others who showed up for your e-party...

From Super Cock


From ~Vixen
From ChocDrop and she had this message for you - "The photo represents that she is the flower in her world and everything else in the picture are the things that have made her who she is---the obstacles, triumphs, accomplishments, and growth."


From Athena - "Any mama who spends equal time worrying about the wellbeing of her children, the satisfaction of her man and the growth and development of her own self deserves to be known as a Goddess. A Barefoot Goodess. And enlightened Barefoot Goddess. Happy Birthday, Barefoot Dreamer."


From Rainy - "Barefoot Dreamer's blog is where I can go and relax. Happy birthday!"


From Ms. Undecided..."BD, to me, is something different in a sea of gray. Beautiful and defiant."


From The Eternal List - "Happy birthday to my favorite MILF"


From Blok Thoughts - "You had me at cooking naked with an apron... and that you have blog crushes... and that you don't trust people. But Mostly I like you because you chat with me and your thoughtful and are a great BLOG friend. I hope you have an EXCELLENT birthday! 7-8-9 I hope that's a GOOD sign, cause you deserve it! Live it up girl your birthday only comes ONCE a year!"

From Roxee Jade (doesn't have a blog anymore) - "BFD is gorgeous in body but more beautiful in mind as she has proven with her posts!!! I love to read her stuff because she writes what I think."


From Autumn


From Nyte Bird - "A great girlfriend is what Barefoot Dreamer would be!"



From Southern Sage - "I hope your dreams come true, and your bare feet play a very very small role in them.... Happy Birthday sexy!"

From Ms. Scarlett Letter - "It was an early morning while I was on a vacation in the UK, I was out for a walk to fetch coffee along the Thames, and this was the sight that greeted me. I wanted, at the time, to walk barefoot along the river, though I didn't. The first time I saw Barefoot's blog, this picture came to mind. To me this picture speaks of new beginnings, beauty, and journeys... all things I think we can safely associate with Barefoot herself. Happy Birthday to her!!"


From Sexie Sadie - "Here's my birthday kiss to Barefoot Dreamer."


From Morning Glory - You've made my life special simply by sharing with me both sides of your world and offering to run away to Vegas with me. I love you!

From 13messages - "In honor of your birthday, I am both barefoot and dreaming in this photo."


Barefoot, as you can see from everyone above, that you are...


Happy birthday!

Tips to Better Living #8

If you enjoy your occasional midnight snack in bed with a bottle of hot sauce, be sure it is the LUBE you grab before engaging in sex.

Leighann, formerly of "Pessimists Need Love Too"

Hotel Series #5 - "Good Bye"

As the sun sets (as seen from my hotel room)...


And I've had time to reflect on my stay at this hotel and all the "activities" here in this room...

~clicky click~
Sadly, it is time to say "good bye" to this series. Thanks for the memories...I know others has benefited from this series as well. ;)


See you next year!

1st Year Blog Anniversary

Well, exactly one year ago, I started my own blog on a rather unsure step with posting a flyer for WNBR (World Naked Bike Ride) because I needed a way to discreetly let few friends know that I want to participate in WNBR and get their support. Other than that, I wasn't sure of the direction I wanted this blog to go. What do I mean about the direction? I wanted to test the waters of my self by showing a risque side of me that I couldn't explore on MySpace or Facebook. Too many people, too many loose lips...

I was intrigued by the idea of "anything goes" in Blogger and I even remember going "Hmm..." on seeing how some bloggers were willing to show a bit more (or a lot more for some) or talk about things on Blogger than they would normally do in real life. Knowing that "anything goes" in Blogger, I thought it was kinda lame for me to start with the magical properties of the moon before moving on to the rash and the itching...which turned out to be poison ivy on my cock. That, started the feeding frenzy among my trusted friends and my wife who razzed me in real life. LOL How the fuck was I supposed to know that I'd descent right into depravity and delighting/regaling the readers/followers/lurkers/stalkers with my erotic stories/fantasies, HNTs, and HNTs with twists? Life is full of surprises, innit? Hehe.

I learned the etiquette of blogging (with thanks to Dana of Amid Life's Crises) and I learned to discard bloggers when they wouldn't comment on my blog (don't bother with excuses, especially when you have been commenting on 30+ blogs). I remember being thrilled to have a follower other than Hetero-Sapphic (a good friend of ours) & Seductive Reasoning (my wife), feeling good about getting the 1st invitation (of several that eventually followed) to a private blog, and getting "personal" e-mail from bloggers who were willing to contact me. I even got to know some of them away from Blogger and I've felt privileged to get to know them better.

Over time, I began to get a sense of where I wanted my blog to go. With a firm direction in my mind, I took some brave steps to post on and about specific things. I found my groove and refined how I would post. Through that (with thanks to several bloggers via comments & e-mail), I was surprised to learn that:

• bloggers get wet and like to get wet over my stories/experiences (what's your factor? Hehe!)
  
• bloggers want/beg to see my cock (I thought everyone would be blase about cocks, cocks, and nothing but cocks) for various reasons such as teasing me about it, discussing openly with me about why I did this, etc.
  
• I could "solve" my antisocial feelings with a Prozac pill by taking one when I simply thought those pills were reserved for the depressed and the desperate people. No, I still haven't taken a Prozac - I simply do not have the medical insurance. No, I'm not worried...I have lived this long without ever having had the benefit of that pill and I can manage.
• blogsphere is truly an interesting & amazing place to socialize in.
• Only 13 (not counting HS and SR) out of my 200+ friends in real life KNOWS about this blog...and they are actually fucking cool about it.
• Many of you love getting comments. Attention whores, you all. ;) Yes, I am one too. Hehe!
  

What has happened in 365 days since I started my blog? I have:

1. developed (and discarded) cybercrushes on some bloggers,
   
2. generated/provoked responses,
   
3. piqued bloggers' interest enough to personally contact me when they wouldn't normally do that with others,
   
4. watched some bloggers disappear or reappear and disappear again,
   
5. become more comfortable with my appearance,
   
6. inspired few friends to start up their own blogs (4 total so far), and
   
7. opened a proverbial can of worms (white trash & Mad Mondays, anyone? LOL)
   

Oh, I stopped having nightmares about being naked at work and I have started enjoying those dreams. Hehe!